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“I love you!” Expressing love in Japanese

Say “I Love You” in Japanese with Langlandia!

Love phrases can be sweet and romantic…

“My darling.” “Your smile is like the sun.” “You are my soulmate.”

But be careful! Japanese love phrases are often subtle compared to those in English. If you use overly dramatic expressions, you might sound too forward or even insincere!

In Japan, people tend to be more reserved about expressing love. While hugs and kisses are common in Western culture, they are not as frequent in Japan—even among couples. Instead, being considerate (気遣い [kizukai]) and showing kindness (思いやり [omoiyari]) are highly valued in relationships.

With this in mind, Langlandia helps you learn the right love phrases at the right time! We’ll guide you through each stage of romance: making the first move, dating, deepening your relationship, and even proposing. At the end, we’ll share some beautiful Japanese love quotes.

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1. First Contact: Start the Conversation

If you’re interested in someone, here are some natural and polite phrases to break the ice. Using formal Japanese at first makes you sound more respectful, while informal versions are great once you’re comfortable.

EnglishJapaneseRomaji
Is it okay to talk for a second?今ちょっといいですか。Ima chotto ii desu ka?
Do you come here often?ここによく来るんですか。Koko ni yoku kuru n desu ka?
What’s your name?名前はなんて言うんですか。Namae wa nan te iu n desu ka?
Can I sit here?ここに座ってもいいですか?Koko ni suwatte mo ii desu ka?
You have a nice smile.素敵な笑顔ですね。Suteki na egao desu ne.

2. Get Closer: Phrases for Dating

As you start dating, you can use informal Japanese if you feel comfortable. If the other person is older or you’re still getting to know them, polite language is safer.

EnglishJapaneseRomaji
Is it okay to talk for a second?今ちょっといいですか。Ima chotto ii desu ka?
Do you come here often?ここによく来るんですか。Koko ni yoku kuru n desu ka?
What’s your name?名前はなんて言うんですか。Namae wa nan te iu n desu ka?
Can I sit here?ここに座ってもいいですか?Koko ni suwatte mo ii desu ka?
You have a nice smile.素敵な笑顔ですね。Suteki na egao desu ne.

3. Fall in Deeper: Expressing Your Feelings

Once your relationship deepens, it’s time to express how much you care!

EnglishJapaneseRomaji
I like you.好きだよ。Suki da yo.
I like you very much.大好きだよ。Daisuki da yo.
I love you.愛してるよ。Aishiteru yo.
You mean everything to me.君は僕/私のすべてだよ。Kimi wa boku/watashi no subete da yo.
I can’t imagine life without you.君なしでは生きられない。Kimi nashi de wa ikirarenai.

4. Take It to the Next Level: Proposing & Commitment

Ready to make a lifelong commitment? Here’s how to say it in Japanese!

EnglishJapaneseRomaji
I want to be with you forever.君とずっと一緒にいたい。Kimi to zutto issho ni itai.
Will you marry me?結婚してください。Kekkon shite kudasai.
Let’s continue to take care of each other.これからもよろしくね。Kore kara mo yoroshiku ne.
I promise to always love you.ずっと愛することを約束します。Zutto ai suru koto o yakusoku shimasu.
You make my life complete.君が僕の人生を完成させてくれる。Kimi ga boku no jinsei o kansei sasete kureru.

5. Romantic Nicknames

Here are some cute names you can call your partner in Japanese!

EnglishJapaneseRomaji
DarlingダーリンDaarin
HoneyハニーHanii
My love私の愛Watashi no ai
BabyベイビーBeibii
Sweetheart恋人Koibito

Japanese Ways to Say “I Love You” (Charming & Natural)

  1. 君といると、世界がもっと輝いて見える。 (Kimi to iru to, sekai ga motto kagayaitemieru.) – “When I’m with you, the world looks brighter.”
  2. 君に出会って、魔法を信じるようになった。 (Kimi ni deatte, mahou o shinjiru you ni natta.) – “After meeting you, I started believing in magic.”
  3. 君と過ごす時間は、まるで大好きな歌みたい。 (Kimi to sugosu jikan wa, marude daisuki na uta mitai.) – “Time with you feels like my favorite song.”
  4. 君は、僕が知らなかったけど必要だった最高の存在。 (Kimi wa, boku ga shiranakatta kedo hitsuyou datta saikou no sonzai.) – “You are the best thing I never knew I needed.”
  5. 心が君を選んだみたい。 (Kokoro ga kimi o eranda mitai.) – “It feels like my heart chose you before my mind did.”

Making the First Move with Confidence

If you want to make an unforgettable impression, confidence and authenticity are key. Whether you’re a gentleman looking to charm someone or a woman making a bold first move, the right words can make all the difference. The goal is to make the other person feel special, valued, and comfortable around you. Try using these expressions in person, over text, or even on social media to spark interest and attraction.


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With Langlandia, you’ll feel bold enough to make the first move, confident in your Japanese skills, and always classy in your approach. Stay slay, stay valuable, and express your feelings without hesitation!

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Practice Vocab

in Japanese in English S
かわいいね? (Kawaii ne?) You’re cute, huh?
いい子だね。 (Ii ko da ne.) You’re such a good boy/girl.
ちょっと甘えていい? (Chotto amaete ii?) Can I be spoiled a little?
悪い子だな。 (Warui ko da na.) You’re a little bad, aren’t you?
好きになっちゃうかも。 (Suki ni nacchau kamo.) I might be falling for you.
何見てたの?私? (Nani miteta no? Watashi?) What were you looking at? Me?
危ないよ、恋に落ちるよ。 (Abunai yo, koi ni ochiru yo.) Careful, you might fall in love.
も〜いじめないでよ。 (Mou~ ijimenaide yo.) Geez, don’t tease me.
あんたはバカなの? (Anta wa baka na no?) Are you an idiot?
素直になってよ。 (Sunao ni natte yo.) Just be honest with me.
今日は何する? (Kyou wa nani suru?) What are we doing today?
一緒に行こう! (Issho ni ikou!) Let’s go together!
どうして? (Doushite?) Why?
信じてるよ。 (Shinjiteru yo.) I believe in you.
気をつけてね。 (Ki wo tsukete ne.) Take care.
頑張って! (Ganbatte!) Do your best!
またね! (Mata ne!) See you later!
愛してる。 (Aishiteru.) I love you.
ごめんね。 (Gomen ne.) I’m sorry.

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With Langlandia, you’ll feel bold enough to make the first move, confident in your Japanese skills, and always classy in your approach. Stay slay, stay valuable, and express your feelings without hesitation!

Start your Langlandia journey today and unlock a new world of language and love!

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